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dear ruth, everyday is an adventure.

July 10, 2021

Dear Ruth,

Today is another adventure.

You may be surprised to receive this letter in the middle of the year, when you always write yourself a letter on January 1st (so you can read it before the year ends). You always love re-connecting with yourself and your feelings. That is one thing I really like about you. You know when you are scared, you acknowledge when you are sad, and your voice kicks the highest pitch (even in digital writing) when you are the happiest.

Letters you wrote yourself (blurred out)

This is your present self. You are typing this letter in your room that has become your favorite place. Just like how you always live your life – enjoying the present, not worrying about the future, and only remembering the goods in the past – you live in the moment.

But sometime in March 2020, there was a moment that shook the whole world. Everything was put into a sudden halt because of the pandemic; then you felt that feeling that is unfamiliar to you – uncertain? worried? helpless?

Uncertain about what the future would be like without your little adventures that sustain you. Worried about your family’s health (living with 2 seniors, a frontliner and little one), that even if you feel strong, you might bring home the deadly virus. Helpless, while dealing with your parents’ anxiety, but praying.

You kept your luggage while you read flash reports of the bloating number of Covid-19 patients around the world. You watched news of how many people lost their jobs, while some people still went out because they needed their jobs.

You got to stay home, but you didn’t know when things would be okay. You found yourself looking back at the decisions you made in the past. You left a secured job at a big company to pursue your passion and seek new experiences. It sounds ridiculous as you you are typing it now. You know that people would kill to have that opportunity. But you are bold and young. You know that it was the best decision for you. Some people (even those who are closest to you) would think that it is a selfish and careless decision. Truth be told, you could have gone and live in another country, but you know you are not selfish to leave home.

When cancer hit the family, you want to have your time available for those who need you the most. You believe that you need to find yourself to be there for people who depend on you. Your passion will find a way to sustain your needs and heart’s desires.

This is how adventures looked like to you in the old normal

Having fun, having new experiences while working

But with businesses closing down, you felt that you were left with nothing, but creativity (and emergency fund). Pandemic gave you time and quiet that you needed. You got more in tune with yourself, your values, and what is most important to you.

You see everyday as a blessing – the sunlight in your room, banters with parents, and little heartfelt laughs from your nephew. You make everyday an adventure at home – even if it means failing at growing your first tomato plant, re-discovering your old hobbies, or building new habits.

Exercising everyday to be stronger and healthier for the family

Mid last year, you received an invitation to be part of the livestream roster of one of the biggest e-commerce sites in the Philippines. This was an opportunity that you previously haven’t thought of saying yes to. But you are lucky to have received the offer the second time. You accepted the challenge and learned the craft. You saw it as an opportunity to learn new things.

With every push of the Go Live button, is an adventure to share stories and learn from random usernames you get to interact through comments and floating hearts. Eventually, they became regular viewers, and they all became your “students”. They called you Teacher Ruth because of your everyday lessons , fun games and real conversations you introduced in the live stream (while helping different brand increase sales, and organizations and foundations raise fund). You found a new medium in #MeaningfulStoryTelling.

A teacher, was once a childhood dream; and you felt honored to fulfill the dream even through a digital platform. Armed with smart phone, and wit, you were able to connect with viewers, and you allowed them to get to know you, too.

At times, you wished you were really a Teacher, but your work history only notes that you taught Koreans English as their Second Language (oftentimes you wonder, if your former students are now KPop Artists). You have high respect for teachers and educators who have a great impact on the growth and life of an individual. You felt happy to be able to share in that mission during the time when everyone is feeling helpless because of the pandemic. Even for a short period, you gave your 100%. You know that it is one of the #JobsThatMatter.

Messages that are more meaningful than awards

You are happy to see the laughing emojis

Your inbox suddenly was filled with messages from parents, even students as young as your nieces, telling you that you made Quarantine Life fun because of your livestream. You never realized that you will get much love from these people just by being yourself.

You would be lying if you tell me you never dreamed of being in the leaderboard. But real winning is making a positive impact on people’s lives. The opportunity to make others happy during the pandemic is something you didn’t expect, but you always know how to make everyday an adventure. They say that you saved them, but in your heart, you know that they saved you. Funny how you sounded like a member of the biggest boyband in the world now πŸ’œ. But this feeling is a wonderful feeling that not everyone would have the opportunity to experience.

Caricature photo that they gave you during the Holidays. They are the sweetest viewers!

Meeting people who also love to write letters.

Personalized Shirt that they gave to you during your Last Livestream. They know you love FRIENDS. πŸ₯Ί

Thank you to all the usernames that became part of my (pandemic) life #RuthDCClass

People you know would always see you as someone who would change the world – maybe hold a good job title under your name, or launch a global brand, but playing a small role in some people’s lives is a win, too. People you might never ever meet, or you would only know via their usernames.

As you pressed the exit button on your last livestream, you knew that the new learnings and experiences will help you as you navigate in the new normal.

You learned to be more adaptive to the ever-changing demands of skills in this industry you embraced. You learned that technology really connects people, and that connection helped you and your mental health. You learned to stand up for what you want in life (even if we are left with few choices). You learned that no matter how well you prepare your life, everything may change in an instant moment. You can only keep your faith in Him to keep going.

This year, as the economy is slowly recovering from the impact of the Covid-19 pandemic, you welcomed a new career and challenge. This is another industry that you know nothing about. But you know that being uncomfortable is the only way for growth.

There are relatives and friends who passed away, health problems and business challenges. You are still fighting battles that you pray you would win. Battles you are hopeful to write good stories about to share in the future – just like another good adventure.

Although you don’t know when you are going to board the plane again, or hang out with your friends, or hug your loved ones, you know you will survive this.

Keep the faith, and do good for tomorrow is another adventure.

Ruthing for you,

Ruth

This story is an entry to ComCo Southeast Asia’s β€œWrite to Ignite Blogging Project Season 2: Dear Survivor”. The initiative continues to respond to the need of our times, as every story comes a long way during this period of crisis. The initiative aims to pull and collate powerful stories from the Philippine blogging communities to inspire the nation to rise and move forward amidst the difficult situation. The β€œWrite to Ignite Blogging Project” Season 2 is made possible by ComCo Southeast Asia, with Eastern Communications and Jobstreet as co-presenters, with AirAsia and Xiaomi as major sponsors, and with Teleperformance as sponsor.

  1. I love how you uses the codename I gave you in this blog to refer to yourself teacher 😍 still ruthing for you for every decision that you will make✊✊ I’m so proud of you❀

    1. Thank you so much, Gracia!!! πŸ’— I am so happy to get to know a smart and loving person like you. Thank you for always supporting! Missed interacting with you guys live πŸ’—

    2. First time ko po magbasa ng blog niyo, very inspiring po na nireremind niyo ang lahat na kahit anong pagsubok po ang pagdadaanan natin, makakayanan natin basta po keep the faith and always think positive po. Malalagpasan din po natin ang pandemic.

  2. Was a viewer here, and I can definitely say you created an impact. You were able to mix a little fun in learning through games and to talk about life experiences that I think would be helpful for me. I’ll be honest, I regret watching you only during the second half of your stay, I thought I could have learned so much more from you. ☺️

    1. Wow, thank you for dropping by here and leaving a comment. I really appreciate it. πŸ’—
      Feel free to check this blog for other stories, and hope you find value in my posts.
      I wonder what is your username? (or alternick) πŸ˜€

  3. I really love reading this blog of yours po ,andami qng na know about u ,ur such an inspiring po πŸ₯°πŸ’—

    1. First time ko po magbasa ng blog niyo, very inspiring po na nireremind niyo ang lahat na kahit anong pagsubok po ang pagdadaanan natin, makakayanan natin basta po keep the faith and always think positive po. Malalagpasan din po natin ang pandemic.

      1. Thank you for dropping by my blog. πŸ’—
        I tried to keep things light and positive here, and writing allow me to re-focus.
        I hope you find value in this post. πŸ’—

    2. Hi Ms. Ruth! I’m Ynah Niro and thank yoi for being an inspiration to me! You know po, I’ve been your long time fan, sa IG po, pero I stopped kasi I gave birth and I need to take care of everything. And now, I’m ready to be your supporter again. Reading this blog is really a pleasure dami ko natutunan sayo huhu. From the very first start, ikaw na talaga ang gusto ko. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

  4. Truly grateful that I met a lovely, cheerful and smart person like you cher ❀ I’ve learned so much from you and tbh you’re really fun to be with even though we interacted virtually. Miss you and I’m so happy to have our friendship πŸ€— Thank you for eveRUTHing! Lovelots πŸ’•

    1. THANK YOU PRETTYBAE!!! πŸ’— πŸ’— πŸ’—
      Ang cute nung everRUTHING! Haha. Ang witty and funny !!!
      Sobrang thankful for the experiences and “marathons” we shared in my stream!! πŸ’—πŸ€—

  5. Thank you so much teacher for being a part in our lives. There’s so many lessons I’ve learned from you… Thank you, I wish you will continue to inspire us in your own little ways. Godbless you always πŸ₯°πŸ’•πŸ™

  6. Dear Self,
    Now that you found just how amazing it is to write letters to yourself, don’t dilly dally anymore and starting doing so.
    -Chil

    Tcherrrr, so nice naman ng may ganito. I will surely duplicate this activity.

    1. Yay! Go, ChilzenMae! πŸ’—
      I previously shared sa Livestream that I do write myself a letter at the start of the year. Some of the classmates started doing this, too πŸ’—
      I hope this will help you find balance and peace in your life din πŸ’—

  7. keep doing what you are doing ms. ruth.. you’re an inspiration to us.. in this time of pandemic, reading you’re blogs is a great help to uplift our spirit and keeping us to move forward.. thank you..😊❀️❀️❀️

  8. Nakakasaya naman ng puso makabasa ng ganitong letter. Ang dami ko napupulot dito sa blog mo. I am ruthing for you, too! I am sure mag-eexcel ka dyan sa new adventure na papasukin mo.

    1. Thank you teacher for sharing your life experiences, trivias our everyday “huntahan”. I am happy to knew all of you guys, I know how hard this pandemic brought to our lives but still we manage to live happily everyday.

      Touching each other’s lives in a different way is a huge impact that can be brought in the succeeding years..

      Thank you again teacher, I really enjoy reading your blog. God bless, hope to see you and my classmates one day ❀️

      1. Super sarap sa pakiramdam na makabasa ng ganitong letter. Thankyou teacher ruth for sharing this❀️

        1. Thank you, Angela πŸ’—
          Yes, and I keep some of the screeshots of messages I cannot publish publicly din πŸ’—

      2. Thank you so much, Ms Kai! πŸ’—
        Kakatuwa looking back at how we became a family in the “classroom” when we don’t really know each other in person. Appreciate the genuine concern and help everyone is offering each other. πŸ’—

        Thank you!!! And yas, looking forward to meeting everyone, too!

    2. Thank you so much for all the support all through these years!!! πŸ’—
      Always present in every platform. Huhhuh. THANK YOU!!! πŸ’—

  9. “Real winning is making a positive impact on people’s lives.” Awww, so inspiring po. GOD bless. πŸ’–

  10. Thanks for sharing, Ms. Ruth.
    Every day is a blessing and we can find happiness in little and simple things.

  11. Reading your letter inspired me. You are really passionate and caring.
    Thank you for sharing and I am looking forward in meeting you in person again, Ms. Ruth.

    Also, I am also thinking why not write a letter to my 30’sh old self. I love to write letter to my family and friends before but was stopped because I am busy – it is not an excuse now at all.

    Cheers and stay safe & well.

    1. Thank you Ms. Roxane! πŸ’—
      Yes, writing allows you to really get to know yourself, what you want, what makes you happy, etc.
      I hope writing will work for your self-improvement, too πŸ’—

  12. Ganda ng msg mo Ms. Ruth nakaka-inspired po talaga kayo. Grabe ngayon na lang ulit ako nakapagbasa ng blog mo Ms. Ruth super nabusy din kasi sa online-class at sa mga prob hope maging ok na talaga ang lahat. Praying na mawala na ang Covid. First ko po makabasa ng ganito sa inyo. Madala ko kasing nababasa about sa travel blog po ninyo. Ingat po lagi Ms. Ruth. for sure nakalimutan mo na ako sa sobrang tagal ko ring hindi nakapag comment πŸ˜†

    1. Thank you, Cris πŸ’—

      I write about my feelings in this blog , too (depending on what I actually feel on that phase of my life). It is not always happy and winning moment, I have some entries here during the time when I was feeling down. πŸ’—

      Thank you for reading and ingat po. πŸ’—

  13. Nice naman nito Ms. Ruth , mostly mga about blog adventure and skin care products Yun nababasa ko at nakikita ko sa IG, pero this , kakaiba hehe . A letter para sa sarili, since it’s it’s a gloomy day and non stop raining why not gumawa din ako ng letter and next year 2022 , baka bigla ko nalang siya Makita at mabasa na nakaipit sa notebook ko . I have lots of thoughts to write down. ❀️
    Sana matapos na Ang pandemic and looking forward for covid free world.. keep fighting and Godbless us all ..

    1. Thank you πŸ’—
      Try to reflect and write about your emotions, I am sure it would also help you in your mental health, especially in this time of uncertainty. I hope it works well for you too! Take care! πŸ’—

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