Dear Ruth, Whenever your friend asks, “What’s making you happy lately?”, your answer is always the same, “A quiet, still life every day.” You enjoy your quiet mornings and chill nights at home – you no longer seek adventures. You faced your biggest heartbreak when Tatay passed away 2 years ago; and you see quiet, […]
When I left my corporate job 11 years ago to be a full-time blogger (content creator was not a term back then), it also meant leaving the comfort and stability of monthly paychecks, performance bonuses, a supportive office culture, and benefits like HMO and insurance. Looking back, typing those words now feels almost too bold. […]
It’s that time of year again—mid-January—when I find myself revisiting this space to reflect, organize my thoughts, and make sense of my feelings. I feel that part of me is still unprepared for this new year. Usually, I start by writing a letter to myself, one I’ll read at the end of the year. But […]
Finding a hobby that fits your personality, lifestyle, and budget can significantly improve your quality of life. The search can be daunting, but when you discover the right activity, it can be a source of relaxation, creativity, and even socialization. Assessing your interests, considering practical aspects, and exploring new possibilities is all part of the […]
Deciding on the right career is a pivotal moment that shapes your future. This process often requires deep introspection and a strategic approach to align your passions, skills, and job market demands. With the right tools and knowledge, you can uncover a career path that provides fulfillment and stability. Below, we explore key factors to […]
Going on staycation / traveling together is my love language. I love going on staycations with friends to catch up and connect. Most often, “a whole day date” is not enough, and a quick catch-up calls for an overnight stay. This is how adult friendships work, and I love that I still get to connect […]
It was my first real heartbreak. I rushed to the hospital and found my brother outside the room crying. It was the type of scene that my main character self didn’t want to step into. I refuse to recall the memory of finding my tatay surrounded by the nurses and doctor in his room, with […]
FRIENDS is that one TV show that I watch when I want to “feel lighter” after watching a heavy series/movie, and when I am feeling down, or just when I don’t have anything to watch. It was my sister who introduced me to Friends, and I remember we would even rent VHS tapes from the […]
I arrived at NAIA Terminal 3 around 5:00 in the morning. From the entrance, I immediately saw the signage where I met the contact person who gave me my travel packet. It contained my travel insurance, an invitation letter that I could present to the immigration (just in case), and my meal allowance. There was […]
When I posted Instagram Stories about how we celebrated International Women’s Day/Suga Day, my friend from Mexico replied and asked, what is the meaning of Suga Day? “Suga Day” is a fan celebration of BTS Suga’s birthday, which is on March 9th. Suga Babes or “Yoongi stans,” use this day to express their love and […]
Hello, I am Ruth.
This is a personal blog where I write about my travels, little adventures, and current fave things.
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